Dear Amy: My daughter is 37, and has been married for 15 years. She and her husband have three boys, ages 13, 10, and 3. She pursued a divorce in the most destructive way possible, by moving a male “friend” (who has three children of his own) into her marital home. He needed lodging because of his pending divorce. My son-in-law allowed it. Later, when the “friend” moved into his apartment, my daughter moved in with him.